I spend alot of time alone. For the most part I like it that way. Some times though I need to connect with people or a person. I don't get out much and don't trust easily. I visit the chats here at PC. It seems pretty safe. Have you considered giving that a try. It seems to be really busy at night. A little less busy durring the day. It's a great way to talk and avoid the dangers we often fall into.