I never said six years time wasn't enough alone time. You are the one that said you have still had someone, your ex, in your life all this time. Although the divorce papers went through six years ago, the emotional and physical connection have still been there, and for whatever reason they are stopping now. Perhaps now not only is this relationship ending, but also the full reality of the marraige over is coming to the surface. That can stop one in the footsteps, real easy...it's a lot to deal with. Like anything though, time heals it...it's a slow process. You can get through this. (((seame))) hugs, Lisa