Well, that's one thing I know about, because I lived with that,too, growing up. And it used to worry me until I learned that when people talk they don't reveal the real truth about a situation, they really reveal more of themselves than anything else.

The answer? Just never judge ourselves, but live by our deepest principles; the rest will fall in line for us. And those who are judgmental can just run with it. Who needs that in their lives? Not me.

I can see that it can be a real trigger, especially when it hits us and we're not in
a "just ducky" thinking mode.

Take care, all.