My husband and I have an upcoming appointment with my therapist for a session together. We fought tonight about it because he said that he doesn't get anything out of it, its for me and that we won't get better until I get better. Do you all think that is true? We have communication issues and when he asked about how my therapy went I told him we talked about the need for me and him to communicate more and after I tell him that and try to open up to him, he hit me with the "we won't get better until you get better" thing. I have been really trying, but it is so hard. No matter how hard I try I always screw up.
Am I the issue in all of my problems?