That's a tough Q for me to answer.

I would say that you had the same issues before you two married. Is he THAT frustrated with you, that he isn't willing to work to improve the marriage that you both are part of ? I hope not. My ex-hub had that perspective after many years and endless problems. But, that's supposedly "life" isn't it??

Gentle hugs to you. I hope that you are able to get your hub to see that he does play a part in the marriage as well. It's best if you both go towards things from the same angle, rather than simply hoping to meet in the end!