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Old Nov 07, 2012, 10:38 PM
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I have no idea, never good with this stuff, who is tho. Probably not many.

My brother in law's mom is in the hospital, she has been fighting with hep C quite badly for two years. She has deteriorated so much that she seems like she has dementia almost. So yesterday, she was left alone for a few hours,,she normally is not left a lone and not for long, in case she turns the stove on or something of that nature and forgets. Apparently she ingested a TON of her meds while she was alone. She wants to go, she really doesn't want to go on. Her liver is already beyond shot, they gave her maybe three months tops, but no going home from hospital. Last night my sister got word that she is now having kidney failure and problems with her blood after they gave her plasma. It's an extremely sad situation. She is a beautiful woman inside and out. She has been through so much, She survived through the Vietnam war and other hardships, and yet this is her, saying no more. Which I do understand.

The doctors told my sister and her husband to come now, not wait till friday since they don't know if she will even make it to friday now , She is over in the next province. They left for there after work today, and I really hope nothing happens before they get there.

Thing is I am very close to my sister, and her husband, I have known him since I was 15, and I just don't know what to say at all. It's heartbreaking. People always say stuff like, they are safe in heaven, or something like that. She is buddhist tho and I am not quite sure what she thinks about after life. Just saying I am sorry doesn't seem good enough either. What do you say tho?
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