I have worked in nursing homes and have lost my parents and all my relatives .. so I
feel I have seen more than my fair share of people dying.

I am not one to say " oh they are in a better place" just my opinion because of my beliefs.

I usually tell someone " I am very sorry for your loss, If you want or need a shoulder I am here."

I am sorry your family is losing someone that is very loved. I'm here if you want or need a shoulder.