My partner and I don't have much of a sex life if we manage sex every other month i'm lucky. I accept that his medications and history combination rob him of most of his sexualily and find it easy to cope with since i became dependant on pain meds because of chronic pain. But we do still make an attempt now and again problems is last time we were getting down and dirty I discovered he had 'smeg' 'knob cheese' which has formed cos he's not pulling back his foreskin when washing his penis. I'm really not sure how to approach telling him, i don't want to kill what remains of our sex life, but if I can't get this right thats exactly what will happen, Especially as he's borderline and holds life long grudges Anyone with advise ? ?