What got me the most about the movie was that it wasn<#t done for educational purposes, it was done in such a way as to shock the audience. I loved those old movies when all they would show was the couple kissing on the bed and then the lights would dim... That is so much more powerful to show love than actually showing people having sex. It's fine in an R rated movie, because then only people who want to see it would watch it, it warns you, but you find these scenes more and more in family movies. It's the same thing with abuse, they can just leave you with the suggestion of it and do not have to show it. I'm afraid to wonder what my kids are going to be watching one day in a pg 13 movie!!!!!