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Old Nov 08, 2012, 01:40 AM
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Originally Posted by VenusHalley View Post
what counts as "traumatized" though? I mean a lot of little stuff can break a person, especially if it's long term.

Let's say you have good, but perfectionist parents... not exactly trauma, but it effects you in negative way.
It definitely does. But perfectionist parents are not good. Decent, maybe, but not good. Good parents allow their children to take reasonable risks and make mistakes, which is mutually exclusive with perfectionism.