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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
I think it's horrible. The whole story. I have a relatively similar situation without the cheating. That, for me is unforgiveable since he made you take care of your mother so he could be an adulterer. That is just.... ugh. Why didn't he just friggin divorce her if he didn't want to care for her or be faithful? Shoot, he's just a lame, immature jerk in a man's body if you ask me. My mother and father have not seen me in over 15 years. They send gifts to my boys at Christmas and birthdays on and off, but that's all my boys know of them. They put a lot of time and effort in their other grand kids though... What did I do? I moved 3,000 miles away and am better for it. NOT suggesting that for you, just give you my story so you know I understand.
You're not a drama queen at all. Your feelings are justified.
*hugs*
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My father, was the only one that ever showed me any kind of affection. So I did what he asked. I knew he had another life, I just didn't want to accept it. If there is a man in this world I can believe in, it's my dad. I used to tell myself that all the time. I haven't seen mother going on 3 years, and she is in a nursing home less than a mile away. Currently I'm living in my fathers house due to bad relationships, but I live here alone with my girls. I told my father that all these years, I was the one to look for him, he said he was going to change after his heart attack, but as soon as he was able to walk, and I taught his FRIEND to drive, he went back to normal. We haven't had our sunday ritual that we had after his attack, since fathers day. I haven't called him, he hasn't either.