I was diagnosed with BPD and clinical depression 20 years ago, and I'm usually pretty stable.

What the crux of my problem is, is the infamous grey area. To make this blissfully short for you guys, I'll summarize.

If someone knows what your triggers are, yet purposely sets those triggers off, does that constitute a form of emotional abuse? It's like they are poking me with a stick, to get me to freak out, when I do, they are all "see ya later", then come back a few months later with the "I'm sorry".

It's just very confusing.