Sannah, that is a good idea, I didn't think of that; it is hard to talk to him but maybe I can give it a go about that issue. Quite interesting about your co-worker, too!

I ended doing a BUNCH of distracting last night. Made some cookies, played the piano, did some dishes...managed to get away with just (possible trigger ahead)*************sterilizing stuff for use, if that makes sense, but didn't DO anything with it, so I made it through!

Thank you guys for your hugs and responses...!