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Nov 08, 2012, 02:50 PM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Posts: 5,518
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I agree. There is no benefit in calling the person a liar. From my own experience, it would simply tell me the person is not someone I would be able to trust or turn to in a time of need. It would be a person I would prefer to NOT have in my life because it makes even simple conversation difficult to believe. If the person had to be in my life, I would not allow them to be too close.
What I love most about my husband is his ability to keep his promises with me - but he never makes a promise he cannot keep. I'm the same way with him. As a result, we trust each other. There have been times when promises had to be broken, but they were trivial, and I fully understand the circumstances.
My ex-husband broke every promise he ever made to me, followed with an elaborate excuse on why the promise could not be kept. It was an exhausting way to live, and it wore on my spirit, threatened my balance, and caused me to question myself. We fought a LOT, but there was nothing I could say or do to make him keep his promise to me. I'm very thankful he's out of my life.
Good luck 
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