Just a question, but what would happen if you were more FIRM with husband? What would happen if you TOLD him "I need more HELP!!" Meaniing with the packing, with the kids, etc. Would it end up in a screaming match, would he yell & holler at you and berate you? Would he be surprised that you got FIRM with him? Do you think that for ONCE he'd actually help you? Or is it a lost cause?

Just wondering. Sometimes if we do something out of character, we spur them into action. LOL Big hugs, Lee