Well, this will be YOUR HOUSE TOO. If you don't want something someplace, tell him to stick it where the sun don't shine! Enough is enough. He is ABUSING YOU in case you didn't notice. Emotional and verbal abuse is just the same as physical abuse, and it LASTS longer than physical abuse!!! I just would NOT take it any longer!! I'd tell him either he HELPS me or the darn boxes STAY unpacked!!! Then I'd grab some mattresses for the kids and myself, and sleep on the floor.

Or better yet, I'd take the kids and leave, if you have money or a credit card. This man is an abusive jerk. He doesn't help you at all, he doesn't respect you, and he doesn't appreciate you. He treats you like a slave, only there to answer to his beck and call.

I'm sorry Elisa, but this irritates me to no end. I lived like this for too many years, and to see someone else living like it just breaks my heart. I wish you the best. Take care Elisa. God bless. Hugs, Lee