(((razeljenny))) I spend a lot of time alone due to having really bad allergies/chemical hypersensitivities and agoraphobia...I find time to be social, I also like the alone time at times to finally get a chance to work on me!!! without guilt!! I kind of just go with the flow, find a balance between both. Going with the flow, I don't have high expectations-reasonable ones, and I don't get big letdowns....so, this probably didn't help you at all, LOL....sorry.