This is only my opinion......

I think you have to choose what kind of person you are......are you going to be a woman who cheats with another woman's husband.........or not.........As long as he is married you would be choosing to break vows.....made before his God....spoken aloud....and witnessed.......

I don't think it is the friendship with the man through e-mail.....that is in question....it is your actions....the choice you make will have consequences.....

Just because you feel something sexual, does not mean you have to act upon it.....if you do....you have already told your Self......you, will have the broken heart....so why would that be your choice...

If you choose the love found in friendship...instead....it can be a love that lasts for the rest of your days......instead of until you get caught....doing something that does not honor your friendship.....or his marriage vows......

The Dali Lama wrote a book.....about the pursuit of happiness....... saying it is every ones right to pursue happiness.....the question you ask your Self is.....are you making a choice......that is founded in the pursuit of true happiness.......or are you making choices in the pursuit of pleasure.....which is an entirely different thing.......

Life is about making choices.....every moment.....

I have a friend who is married that is hugely loved by me....he helps me to live.....I have a brain injury.....that has loss of memory attatched.....I am married also.......His wife loves me.....there is nothing I would hide...I make my choices so that I ring true to my Self......the person that is good with in me.......

I love them both...but he is special to me....

We carry an energy about us....in everything we do....there is never a question in anyones mind that I would choose the path that would lead to destruction of trust........

True friendship is such a treasure......why would you want to make a choice that in the eyes of your own Heart would cause your Soul to be a bit tarnished..?...

To love someone is not a bad thing.....but to use that Love in a manner that does not stand, in Truth, will only cause you injury..........

Well....I have jabbered.......I send my thoughts to you....in the prayer they will carry something, that holds value to you.......

Blessings to us all........
Hummer