I think it depends Pas. For me it depends on the who the person is doing the holding. When it's someone I know closely, that I feel that type of intimacy for, yes being held is a comfort. Let's say if it's someone that is a casual friend, someone I don't rell all too, well, it's less comfortable. Almost, with some, a very uncomfortable feeling that makes me anxious. Hope this helps. hugs, Lisa.