I am under extreme pressure right now. One daughter is having the fight of her life with OCD, the other went off her depression meds and can barely move. Son, who knows, I think he'll get into major trouble with untreated mental illness. Spouse was an *** to me the other day due to his own anxiety. It's late at night and one daughter too far away for me to deal with her crisis myself so she is with friends for the night and we shall see. This college thing is stressful beyond imagination for her. And I am so stressed right now. I would rather feel their pain then watch them go through it. That is pain in me. and it's big.