Please explain further..... this is interesting, as I could say that many things are not what they seem, for example sometimes my feelings regarding a situation are not the accurate, as in others think my reaction is skewed or too intense for the circumstance. I may "beat myself up" and internalize self loathing for thinking I hurt someone with words ...in reality they claim to have not been hurt, nor see how it would have even been considered hurtful. Yet I don't believe them. Is anything real?