I feel attachment to my t. I don't know about connected. I voted for in control and connected, assuming that means I am attached to him.

I feel I am in control in that, for the most part, I am in control of what we talk about bi am careful, for the most part, to control myself. I dislike crying in front of people, etc, and for the most part I don't. However, on the rare times I lose control, I am learning to trust that he will not use my loss of control against me and no harm comes to me from it.