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Nov 09, 2012, 02:21 PM
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Member Since: Nov 2012
Location: colorado springs co
Posts: 10
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Originally Posted by hartbroken
It's because she found out I've masturbated to porn and have still have been struggling doing that. I guess I was brought up and so was she that if I look at regular porn while I'm in a relationship that's cheating on her. It hurts her feelings and now I'm off my anti-depressant I'm starting to obsess and be anxious about what situation I'm in. I'm continually crying and can't sleep. I love her so.
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Hi I am new so I hope this is okay for me to do. Anyway I am so sorry, my brother struggles with porn addiction too, but in my personal opinion masturbating to porn is not cheating,you have an addiction, and that is such a hard thing for a spouse I am also an addict not to porn but to pills and meth I am in recovery I have been clean for about 17 months. In my opinion if you really want to try to get her back you should admit you have a problem start getting help for the problem like classes counseling the whole 9 and let her see you are truly committed to changing. BUT IT TAKES A LONG TIME to earn back trust my husband still does not trust me and honestly he lives in the past so much I am starting to wonder if him and I even have a future ya know. Just try that approach, let her know how deeply you love her let her know the steps you are taking to get help and just do it and ask her to give you a chance to prove it to her... hope this helps... 
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