My T doesn't take notes- luckily for me cause I find it very distracting. He remembers or writes notes after my session's over- IDK, he says he has some notes but won't let me see them. Yeah I know it's weird and it bothers me a bit but he had told me in our first session- stg about the notes being personal. Not sure I remember it right (6 years ) but it was stg along these lines- like I wouldn't understand his notes, they contain his private thoughts...
Well, not ideal- but what is?
Maybe she's just taking the notes because she doesn't know you yet? Anyway, it's stg worth talk about.