((Rainbow)) - - thanks. My reason for posting that story is because someone posted that people who regress shouldn't get a free pass to behave badly. I want to understand this, truly, and not be triggered by it. I gave the example because I wanted to show that I'm not trying to just behave however I want, I'm not just being bad. I don't know how to process what I go through when I regress and that a therapist should impose a consequence. I impose my own consequences. I guess that is control? I feel like I just don't get it, and maybe I never will. I really just don't understand and am glad this post is here so I can try to.