Thank you for the kind words and thoughts Katheryn, Hillybun and Serenity. Daughter got through the night, friends stayed in the city with her and helped her get food and sleep, both good. She called and sounds a little better but easily overwhelmed. I am as well. Daughter with depression feeling better because she also had an untreated sinus infection. me, I am sore as heck from the rain and P.T. The thing is I guess I would rather feel the pain of the world then see people suffer and I feel the pain but others still suffer. I am most worried cof college daughter now. If anyone is reading this and knows of the struggles I had with my son, please chime in. He is living 20 miles away and does not see or speak with us often. It is good for me. My college daughter looks to mom for help in taming the ocd demons and I don't know what to say except talk back to it and do it anyway. YIKES!