Move on sweetie. When you truly fall in love, and visa versa, there is a feeling of coming home. You two sound like you are on totally different tracks. I used to think that the guy I would fall in love with would have all those special qualities. (sweet, generous, etc) but I fell in love with someone I couldn't imagine I would fall in love with. He is sweet, generous etc, but infront of that is loud, proud and rambuncious. The point is, you never know who he will be, but when he arrives, you will know. It is soothing not confusing