Both of you are right in your observations. I want to make it clear that I have never behaved in a way that was immoral with this man, though we did hug and give pecks of kisses during the last two visits. My correspondence with him is more of the friendship type, acknowledging love, but not in a real romantic way, just abiding caring. I dont' think he's a cad or that he disrespects women. His wife knows of our correspondence and he has even said she does the same with old boyfriends. I have no delusions about setting up housekeeping with him or having a long distance affair. The contact with him is a fulfillment for me however...something I miss when it's not there, and he expresses the same. Is this wrong?
Patty