Do you think he is involved with another woman? Sounds like something like that to me, or he's just a waffling cad. At any rate, Icetea, he is giving you grief, and you'd be better off to let it go...NO contact, and move on with the work of recovering. I've been in your shoes, believe me, and if you feel as you say you do, it takes TIME! Be kind to yourself and don't let this man mess with your mind.
Patty