I was also struggling to meet new people... not a guy as such, but just to make some friends. I discovered routine was a very important thing. I use to go and drink a cup of coffee at the same place at the same time everyday and soon you start to see familiar faces and start to interact with them. Do the things you like and you will meet people with the same interests, like LMo mentioned. There are many lonely people out there who would also love to meet someone.

If you still have problems I'll let you in on the way I caught myself a date in a very desperate way without it seeming so!!!!!!!!!