Have some news in this department.

Enter two new guys.

Both I have known for over 10 years as friends, but now as sexual partners.

One is 35, lives in Maine, and it is over Skype (my first time using Skype in this way).

The other is 46 and lives in my city. RL sex.

And both are perfectly fine with my body as it is. Even though they, too, saw me much thinner. No comments from them about how good looking I was back then and how fat I am now - nothing of this sort. Everything is just fine for them NOW.

I cannot help noticing that in my little sample people in their 30s and 40s are OK with me while people in the 50s (who, you'd think, would be more accepting) are not at all OK with me. Go figure!