Thank you for cheering me up. I am happy to talk to someone. In the past, I was diagnosed with social anxiety and OCD. I used to self-harm but not anymore. Or perhaps nowadays, I just do so by eating and sleeping most of the time and playing video games. I live by myself and have a good and loving relationship with my mother and father. I need them more than anyone else in the world. I am trying to get work and I wish I found a place to belong where people value the same things: Nature, health, kindness, and loving nurturant motherly qualities. I really feel like you guys have created that place here. Thank you for allowing me a place to talk. I am a 28 year-old man from Sri Lanka who grew up in the States and have anxiety of separating from my mom. She really looked after me and provided for me. I wish I were more independent and self-aware. again , thank you for letting me speak.