It sounds to me like you have very "negetive" people around you tbh, and that "is" a problem. Some people can make you feel like a failure no matter what, they get so they "grade you" unfairly and if not careful, you can end up believing it. I don't believe that people "can't learn grow and achieve", I have seen too many turn around "inspite" of the negetive they seem to get from family and people that assume they will just fail somehow.

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