Welcome back Purple ! You have been missed. Please never feel bad about asking for support here ! All of us go through times that we need support and then it flips to giving support . That's why were are all here
I'm sorry you have so many things happening at once. Talk about a plate being full. I think it is great that you have come to terms about your current job. I'm certain something is going to pop up that will be a much better fit for you. A new job or being your own boss.
Ahh your son moving out . Ugh My daughter left the nest a little over a year ago. I was a total mess cried for days and days. It is so hard to see them go, They all need to stretch there wings I guess. I have no advice really as I am still coming to terms with it all.
Wow .. Sorry your mom likes to control things so much. Hopefully you can find a safe way to help your sibling and it not come back around to your mom.
Even though you have a lot going on you really " sound" like your doing better.
Glad you are back