IcedTea, I'd leave well enough alone. It's too up and down, and this is just the beginning of something. Many men, and women for that matter say it's destiny. Doesn't always mean it's meant. He says a lot of things, but can't seem to back them...he loves you one minute, not the next, then not sure, then he does and so on. Way tooooooooo much work for just coming out of the gate so to say.

I too, cannot help but wonder if there is another woman in the picture, like a wife, or girlfriend, that he is struggling between. Whatever the case, this relationship is unstable to say the least.

Someone can be very convincing when you want to hear it and believe it. Someone that truly loves you isn't a yo yo...they have more of a tendency to be steady...not so back and forth.

I'd walk away for good here, he's got too much baggage or what not, and if you tie all your time up trying to fix him, you could be seriously missing out on the one you are "destined" to be with.

hugs, Lisa