I don't know seame. Why did things change now? That you stopped being intimate with him? That whatever you had stopped? Only you and he can answer that question. Have you asked him? Have you asked him if he wants more? Is this relationship that the two of you have had been a secret from people all this time? By the way you speak it doesn't sound like it was very open, because some people think you should be over him by now.

Maybe it's time to just ask him outright, if you want more...you will never know. Then you can decide what you want to do from there. Be like things are now. Or move on with your life and let someone new in.

(((seame))))) hugs, Lisa