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Originally Posted by hankster
some of my best friends are into homeopathy - hey, that's fine with me if they want to believe that crazy ****, but they better not try to force it on me. some people have bad boundaries - this helps you define yours as good and strong. I think my friends are surprised that I don't try to change their minds to my beliefs, and then I don't follow THEIR beliefs! There is a third option, ya know - peaceful coexistence. They really want me to admit I think they're "wrong" - they don't seem to understand the concept of, it can be fine for you but not for me. That, or they're just running their Amway training on me, which REALLY makes me mad and makes me question our r/s.
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Hankster, some of my best friends are into homeopathy, and they do suggest it often enough, but I have always politely declined, and don't necessarily feel pressured. My mom os always offering up herb teas to cure whatever she thinks may ail's one (I need the tea, because I'm the crazy one) - I never indulged. Also, I've never had a hard time saying no to a therapist before. I always said no to be ornery, because of mother- transference. I wonder if this is practice for, or if I see mommy over the holidays?
I've never been able to coexist with my mom, but maybe if I can coexist in this group peacefully...