Hi! I want to know if it's normal for me to prefer being in the dark verses being in a room with lights on. My ex-boyfriend threatened to kill me. I filed a police report. They told me since he is an ex-navy seal and a boxer that it wouldn't be wise to go home right now. I'm staying with a friend for a few weeks. Am I over reacting? I've had severe headaches, and I don't want to talk. Not to friends, family or anybody. My eyes won't cry, but my heart won't stop. Can anyone help?