((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS )))))))

I feel your pain and mistrust of people, for I too have been through the sexual abuse and being took for another's sick pleasure.... please know that it is OK that you do not trust so easily right now - for I too have learned to make one earn my trust before I give it away.... and very few have earned that right to my trust - since it was broken.
The more we HEAL the more we will TRUST....and yes, we can be selective to whom we will or will not trust.... its OK to have your own opinion in this matter.

Please know that you (or any other sexually abuse victim) was NEVER at fault for what happened to them.... you being born female does not give some one else the right to take what they want - your body is your GIFT to offer as you will, to whom you will.

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( love )))