Hey, I know sometimes many people don't respond. Which is okay, certainly everyone here is dealing with their own problems. But like you've expressed Carol and others in this thread have mentioned, it's discouraging and frustrating...

I think it's very important as cat pointed out to continue posting (with no expectations). Our strongest need as people with BPD I feel is to be validated, we want our feelings, thoughts, opinions, ideas and very existence to be valid. That is okay to ask for, everyone needs that at some level.

So don't stop posting, you're valid.