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Originally Posted by PlatinumHeart
Maybe you didnt do anything wrong. Give it some time. Guys are weird. They do things a whole lot differently than we think they are doing. We read signs, watch for signals, but usually we dont have a clue whats going on, and neither do they!
I would take the initiative and strike up a conversation next time you see him. Guys like that sometimes. But if youre too scared or shy, I understand. But think about it, there is nothing wrong with going after what you want 
Good luck and tell us what happens. |
Yes, you are right. I didn't do anything wrong and guys are weird. I am just gonna have to force myself not to think about it or to fantasize about it. I have a strong tendency to become obsessed with a guy if he shows any tiny bit of interest in me. I have managed to destroy every relationship that has come my way. After a period of time, after a hard breakup, things quiet down inside me and I ease into a state of complacency. So, because I know this, it is one reason to just walk away and accept whatever comes my way. I have no desire to go after what I want anymore because as history shows...everything ends in disaster. If he is interested, he will have to take the lead and fight for me...but I doubt that will happen. No one had ever even tried to work it out with me. They come, they go...and they don't care what state of mind they leave me in. I just have to accept it...and I am working on it.