I will just go about my business. I will definately be kind to him and talk to him as usual. But, I will not go out of my way to pursue him. I am trying to change my ways by letting the man take the lead. I once was a woman who wanted to be equal to men, but I really miss having a door opened for me, or being around men who have manners and respect for women. I want a man who will treat me right and protect me and take care of me. I raised my kids alone and I did just fine without a man. But I am sick of living that way. I want someone who will love me no matter what and someone that I can shower all my affections on...because I am an extremely passionate person who would spoil a man rotten if he could just understand that I am not trying to control him, but instead just so full of love and passion that needs to be expressed.