I write notes to my sons therapist because bad behavior = bad kid / bad kid = SH to him. So writing it down may keep peace a little. Does your school district offer an alternative school for "at-risk" kids? A lot or all of the teachers usually carry duel education/ psychology degrees to better help kids and give them more options. It may help you keep piece this summer. Do you have the option for family help, respite, or daycare so you can re-charge your battery?