I have my 2nd oldest son and his wife. They have been such a blessing to me! They take the kids every other weekend, they interviene w/ Cissy when I cant take it anymore, they come and help me clean b4 the therapist comes. They attend every in home they are not wking! My grown son that LIVES here w/ his wife- he does nothing to help. They come in from wk, go to their room and turn on Netflicks. When all this happened, his wife, who is a nurse, did change Beans' (the 8 yo who was burned) bandaging when he got out of the hospital everyday but since it has become less complicated now that all the blistering is gone, she doesnt even do that. MM- What does SH mean (in your "bad behavior, bad kid" equation)?