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Yes, I agree with the above posts. You probably were sufocating her. Sometimes when we care, we care too much afraid that person will go away so we hold on too tight. This is a good lesson for you to learn..a sad lesson though.....Give her some time and I don't mean a couple days, then give her a call or drop off some flowers. The relationship may be dead, but try again after giving her the space but remember why she didn't want to see you. If this does not work out remember that the next girl is an individual with other interests besides you! Take it very slow, and then figure out why you hang on so tightly yourself!!! This is a good one to talk about with your therapist if you have one.
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