Ahhh! Now it makes sense! Cissy's problem is not SELF- harm but harm of others- she lashes out at other children, even adults. She once slapped my husband square thru the face at a picnic in front of several of our adult friends. I was surprised he held his temper and didnt beat her down right then and there. Im not sure how it would have played out if she had done the same thing to me!