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This is something I had to deal with most of my life from my sister, I used to see her most weekends until I snapped at her, She would insult me all the time and yet I would take it from her, she would say things like "your hair is a mess" You look fat" You have put weight on" Your clothes don't suit you" etc... But I kept going back for more, I blame her a lot for my low self esteem and low confidence.
One day I had booked a holiday and she flipped at me,I really didn't know why only when I thought about it that I thought maybe she was jealous? So when I saw her next time she was still going go about this holiday that I had booked, I then had a massive argument with her and told her that I am fed up with her insults, Of cause she didn't like what I said and twisted everything that I said and people believed her because she sounds so convincing, Anyway we hardly talk now and that was almost 3 years ago, She has got what she wants now, People not talking to me.
I do think it's down to jealousy with these people I really do, I put up with my sister for years constantly insulting me.
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