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Originally Posted by genetic
Just a bit of helpful information, IZ:
If this ever happens to you again, please don't involve yourself any deeper than giving total responsibility to the police. If, for some unusual reason, your boyfriend had been abducted by a psychopath, you could easily have been his next target had you invited yourself into a situation that was dangerous.
Only the police should know about what is happening. That way you insure your own safety (which is in dire straights if an abduction has occurred and you're the closest person to the one who has been harmed).
You are fortunate that this incident didn't turn out to be one of an antisocial or
psychopathic personality's aberrant behavior.
Take care of yourself, please.
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Thanks, genetic. We are 3,000 miles apart. I limited myself to contact with the landlords (who had first called me) and checking with the school to see if he had been there the days we had not heard from him. My text/email/voicemail to him were very short and made no mention of the guy or the threat. In the event the guy had his phone (or computer), he would not have been tipped off that I had any idea of his involvement. BF actually does not even have my address in his phone or computer, so it would have been quite difficult to find me anyway. My statement of "if he so much as laid a hand" was just expressing my frustration to you guys. I do run on the paranoid side of things, which keeps me from a lot of trouble.
