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Originally Posted by s4ndm4n2006
Naw of course you can't ignore it. But you also can't rely on him mending their wounds. Only you can. So that's the proactive thing to do  Just be everything you can as a mom and they'll be ok eventually. Though there are scars that will stay with them for life, I know. |
I try, but my daughter is pushing me away right now and my son keeps threatening to move far away. Rejection and abandonment are all they know and they are desiring to reject and abandon the one person who has never done that to them. I am not meaning to sound so selfish, but that is what is going on. I don't know how to handle that. I scares me to death! They have walls up to keep me out. It just freaks me out because I thought I was a good mother to them. The problem is that I failed to protect them and they know it.