That response would have hurt me as well. Your help means so much to me, but your not willing to help me to be able to afford your help? Maybe she didn't understand you correctly? Either way I think you need to be really clear. It's a big hassle and a pain for you too, but you really think you need to stick with weekly appointments, so would she be willing to help you makes this work? I think you need to tell her how it made you feel when she seemed to be so unwilling to help in this situation.
I stopped for financial reasons, well, I cut back to once a fortnight. It was dreadful. I went downhill so quickly. I felt abandoned. I'd advice you strongly to not just do this because it seemed her position was made clear. You really need to be heard, so you can understand what is happening and why, and if it's avoidable.
My therapist does often use my appointment times do deal with that sort of stuff, and if that would help in a situation like this, I do think it's worth using appointment time (if you can't pay extra) to sort it out, if at all possible.
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